Debates in Development thru Visualization and Affirmation

Most people that get into an argument want to knock the other person out, rather than manipulate through the problem to find a positive resolve. For this reason, this subject is geared to prepare you to construct while evaluating your problems closely. First, understand that arguments can produce positive results, providing that both individuals realize that it is a persuasive action, which moves another person to take action: In some cases, one person may argue and will not back down until he or she has proven right. Often, there are underdeveloped issues that have led to this problem.

Through interlinked notions or ideas that support some belief, people will argue their point to someone else while standing firm with their beliefs. Some people invoke fights because both parties are underdeveloped. Neither party has reached the maturity level of self-development. For this reason, an argument will bring out and sometimes end up into a brawl. To avoid brawling one can develop his or her ability to give positive arguments that produce good results.

How to argue effectively:
In this instance, we are going to use an example of a problem that we can work through while using our mind to solve the problem. Thus, this tactic will help you build your critical thinking skills. First, make a list of the causes that you find relevant to the problem. Clarify the problem by using affirmation. Next, create a list of the effects that relate to the problem. Review my list below:

Must finish articles for client
Must finish my homework by tomorrow
Must prepare to visit my attorney tomorrow

Cause:
The problem is obviously expectations that I must meet.

List of effects:
Miss work sometimes
Stress from school and lack of participation from my peers
Stress over visiting a lawyer

Now, list some of both positive and negative effects that link to the solution.

1. Negative Effects - Too many articles for one person to write in a day – I can finish most tonight and have the others done in the morning. Positive
2. It takes a few minutes to finish my homework. – It is discouraging that I have to do my homework with my peer’s involvement since the subject is a team assignment.
3. expensive – possibly productive

Continue creating negative and positive lists until you come up with the best solution to solve your problem. Likely our problems different - Write your issues rather than try to figure out mine. It takes me to solve these issues.

Once you find the best potential answer to solve your issues, write up a final assessment to see what you come up with. Each time you follow this structure you can resolve mental arguments effectively. By using visualization and affirmation, you can reach for higher grounds of development. The mind should be encouraged to stay focused while you assess your problems. Always write your problems down, so you do not leave anything out. You may miss a good point that could help you solve arguments.

If you find yourself arguing with others often, use this tactic to resolve the issues, rather than both of you becoming emotionally upset, you can end the argument smoothly. Take some time to visit the Internet as well, so that you can discover other ways to provoke mental pictures in your mind to help you create affirmations that enable you to make better choices. Steady evaluate as you think through problems, rather than letting others get to your emotions. Remember, when emotions feel threatened, no one gets anything accomplished, especially when one acts on their emotions without much forethought.